How we ended up in this condition? Having these kind of
conversations? Sharing these type of thoughts? The answer for me is
still mystified. During my time in the military service, I get integrated inside the
deep core of the culture I'm living in. As most are from diverse
backgrounds, social status, religious status, financial position and
academic level. They might seem so different in core. But most
share same qualities when it comes to sexuality and moral behavior.
Recently, most
adolescence are mystified by sexuality and the pornification of
the talks. It makes them all gather at once with complete silence,
leaving space to one by one in representing their pornographic thoughts.
What's worse is that pornography is no longer a X-rated issue in normal
talks. When I leave my ears naked to these discussions it disconnects
the brain cells away from each other creating a gap full of bubbles of
infected thoughts.
This is a human degradation
to a male or a female. Our main stream entertainment is supporting this
dark culture. We see suicidal tendencies in our civilization. This is
one of them. It troubles me about this country that we are living in a
society that doesn't encourage people about this wrong doings. I find
intellectual, morally influenced minds hearing similar talks without giving a slight
reaction to it, is similarly disturbing. This moral consciousness we
have will no longer exist if we keep ignoring this common behavior. You,
me and everyone are included in this dark culture. This deviant sexual
perceptions that are not only talked about but promoted by our mass
media. This vast creativity in sexual swear words, objectifying women .
This "women" word linguistically, became another word for sex!
The
music industry has gone too far. It’s not about me being old-fashioned.
It’s about keeping values that are important in the modern world. These
days you can’t watch modern television show, movie, music video without
hearing and seeing some percentage of sexual references.
We
have a social science that has shown when men see a nearly or
completely naked women. The same area that lights up when they see an
object, lights up! Turning the perception to women to a complete objectification.
We
have to deal with this reality in our culture, the bestseller popular
video games, advice columns, reality television shows and music lists.
Become increasingly acceptable-- when there is some pornification
included. During some discussions I had with gamers, most prefer
playing a game called GTA "Grand Theft Auto" spending most of their time
in the game at the strip club!
Even with perfume ads, sexual content is
manifest in the usual ways: as models showing skin-chests and breasts,
open shirts, tight-fitting clothing-and as dalliances involving
touching, kissing, embracing, and voyeurism. I wondered were they selling sex or scent?
When
I was twelve I used to sing Scooby Dooby Doo, where are you?’ But
yesterday when I was waiting for the Taram. I sat waiting beside a kid
nearly that same age, plugged in with the music, it seems he was totally
influenced by it and was singing "Smack that", in syncrasy with badly disturbing hand movement and he is nearly a 12! We
force our youngsters to mature fast in a twisted way.
Where
is the commitment to modesty to honoring our women,what kind of dark
community we live in? Are we imitating only the animalic aspect of the
western and eastern world leaving the good things behind! Where is the
originality in our community. And this has nothing to do with traducing
liberal values. Everybody has the right to do whatever he or she wants
as long as it doesn't damage the community. This thing I'm trying to represent here is worth fighting for! The most applicable way to fight this is to not be shy or feel awkward in discussing these topics with someone who finds it normal.
All the
hardships that you suffer in this life. If you haven't found the reason
why is it happening to you and continue pretending as non of your business. You
are not actually living. Your spiritual being died long time ago. And
Only the moral-less physique remains.
Written by: Saleh N. Alarabi
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